Just Follow the below steps and your problem will be solved ...
Note:This Can BE Used For Word press And Blog spot Blogs.
1.Getting your ID
For INDIAN Users Register a Free account in M3M.in.
Fill in the details and a message[SMS] will be sent to you with your PASSWORD.
Once u have Your account created ,u will get a ID (ex.91xxxxxxxxxx.m3m.in).
REMEMBER It for future use.
For other USers:
Read this article to get your personalized ID
How To Send Email To Any Cell Phone (for Free)
2.Open your Gmail Account associate with your blog)in which u get comment moderation e-mail)
3.Navigate through Settings-->Filters -->Create a New Filter
For Wordpress User’s:
For BLOGGER User's
Fill above Information Correctly Without Any Mistakes .
4.Click Next Step button.
5.Tick the "forward it to" check box
6.Sitback and enjoy because a message will be sent to u each time u comment is kept for moderation